Advent Thoughts – Martha

There are some very specific reasons currently that have led me to not having the time to write at length as I typically do.  On the other hand, here is something I wrote for tomorrow’s service, the second week of Advent.

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The Music and the Weakness

So what’s the difference between a song like this:

And a song like this?

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Almost Atheist: Atheism and the Sovereignty of God

This is a deeply emotional question.

Where has everyone else gone in this family photo?

Think about this passage in Revelation 7 for a second:

Then one of the elders addressed me, saying, “Who are these, clothed in white robes, and from where have they come?” I said to him, “Sir, you know.” And he said to me, “These are the ones coming out of the great tribulation. They have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb.

“Therefore they are before the throne of God,
and serve him day and night in his temple;
and he who sits on the throne will shelter them with his presence.
They shall hunger no more, neither thirst anymore;
the sun shall not strike them,
nor any scorching heat.
For the Lamb in the midst of the throne will be their shepherd,
and he will guide them to springs of living water,
and God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.”

(Revelation 7:13-17 ESV)

“God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.”  What does that even mean?  Does it mean that there will be no more suffering, no more pain?  Does it mean that it will be the end of all sadness and that there will only be joy?

Or does the passage say something more nuanced, more difficult, and yet… more beautiful?  Does it mean that rather, God will comfort me in my grieving, yes, even the grieving that occurs standing before the throne?

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Why I Never Remarried

Editor’s Note:  The following post is the introductory post of my good friend, Michelle.  I hope she will continue to post alongside me as we continue the path of understanding what it means to come together in fellowship. – Jason S. Kong

I have lost count of the number of times I’ve been asked. Usually it comes during pleasant conversation — you know the kind: words flow seamlessly, the subject at hand takes delightful twists and turns, time and location become irrelevant as the pleasure of connectedness takes over. After a pause, a moment of reflection, my friend will look straight at me and ask, “Why is it that you’ve never remarried?” This question is both flattering and perplexing. I’m flattered because generally it contains the implication that I’m interesting, I have vitality, and my physical features are all in their correct places and not overly misshapen. It’s perplexing because it seems to indicate that somehow something is amiss and we need to address it.

My general answer is to blush, demur, and to change the subject as quickly as possible.

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Pat Robertson, my Grandmother, and Alzheimer’s

The hospital room always reminded me of this.

We only visited her once or twice a year – she lived over five hundred miles away, after all.  Even during the trip up the coast, there were always slight grumblings coming from my parents’ lips.

“I wish she could have stayed with us instead.”

Still, the decision seemed best for everyone involved, and we arrived at the hospital with boxes of Chinese food and plenty of napkins to spare.  The nurses smiled as we strode through the hallways – even though we came sparingly, it was often enough for them to remember us.

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